The 2011 Mutual theme for the year is the 13th Article of Faith. Here is a family home evening lesson that focuses on the being honest! Scripture: 13th Article of Faith Hymn: I Believe in Being Honest or Do What is Right Lesson: The Catcher's Mitt or Honesty in the Small Things Treat: Peach Blossom Tarts or Fruit Flowers Activity: Fly a kite or Go for a walk •View entire lesson...

Honesty

FHE Scripture

Scripture


Article of Faith 13

13 We believe in being honest, true, chaste, benevolent, virtuous, and in doing good to all men; indeed, we may say that we follow the admonition of Paul—We believe all things, we hope all things, we have endured many things, and hope to be able to endure all things. If there is anything virtuous, lovely, or of good report or praiseworthy, we seek after these things.

FHE Lesson Hymn

Hymn

I Believe in Being Honest–Primary Song #149 or  Do What is Right Hymn 237

I Believe in Being Honest

1- I believe in being honest;
I believe in being true,
That honesty should start with me
In all I say, in all I do.
I’ll form good habits in my youth,
To keep my word, to tell the truth,
To speak up in defending right
And keep my name and honor bright.
I believe in being honest;
I believe in being true,
That honesty should start with me
In all I say, in all I do.

Do What is Right

1. Do what is right; the day-dawn is breaking,
Hailing a future of freedom and light.
Angels above us are silent notes taking
Of ev’ry action; then do what is right!

[Chorus]
Do what is right; let the consequence follow.
Battle for freedom in spirit and might;
And with stout hearts look ye forth till tomorrow.
God will protect you; then do what is right!

2. Do what is right; the shackles are falling.
Chains of the bondsmen no longer are bright;
Lightened by hope, soon they’ll cease to be galling.
Truth goeth onward; then do what is right!

3. Do what is right; be faithful and fearless.
Onward, press onward, the goal is in sight.
Eyes that are wet now, ere long will be tearless.
Blessings await you in doing what’s right!

FHE Lesson

Lesson

*For Younger Children* Read this story and discuss the questions at the end. You may also want to use clipart to help tell the story.

Moving from his hometown hadn’t been easy for Charlie. After Dad had been offered a better job, the family decided to move. Charlie’s seven-year-old brother, Justin, didn’t mind the move. Justin made friends wherever he went.

But going into a new sixth-grade class in the middle of the school year was hard for Charlie. Most of the kids had known each other since kindergarten. No one seemed interested in getting to know him. So Charlie was excited when Ryan and a couple other guys in his class asked him to go to the mall with them after school. They were going to look for some equipment for baseball season, which was only two weeks away.

As the boys walked into a sports equipment store, Charlie pulled a catcher’s mitt from the wall and tried it on.

“That’s a cool mitt,” Ryan said.

“I know,” Charlie said. “Too bad I don’t have any money.”

“Just stick it in your backpack,” Ryan said. “Nobody’s watching.”

“What? You just want me to take it?” Charlie asked.

“They overcharge for everything in this store,” Ryan said. “We probably pay too much for a lot of things.”

Charlie wanted that mitt. Baseball season started soon, and he needed a new catcher’s mitt. A lump formed in his throat. He knew he shouldn’t take the mitt.

“Go ahead. Take it,” Ryan said.

“Not right now,” Charlie said. “Maybe later.”

Charlie hung the glove back on the wall and turned around. The boys were laughing.

“Baseball season is coming up,” Ryan reminded Charlie as they left the store. “You’re going to need a glove soon.”

Charlie couldn’t concentrate on his homework that evening. He still wanted that mitt. He started to wonder if Ryan was right. At dinner, Mom and Dad noticed something was wrong.

“How are things at school, Charlie?” Dad asked.

“I got 100 percent on my spelling test,” Justin said.

“That’s great,” Dad said.

“How about you, Charlie?” Mom asked. “How’s that essay coming along?”

“I’m almost done,” Charlie muttered. “I’ll go finish it now.”

Charlie’s teacher had assigned him to write an essay about freedom. Charlie pulled out his notebook, picked up his pen, and began reading from his textbook. “Freedom has two parts—agency and responsibility.”

Charlie had learned about agency at church, but he never really thought about it being connected with freedom. He started thinking about the catcher’s mitt. He knew he shouldn’t take it. He decided he wouldn’t—no matter what the other guys thought.

The next day at school, Charlie told Ryan he wasn’t going to take the catcher’s mitt.

“What’s the big deal?” Ryan asked. “They’ve got hundreds of them.”

“Stealing is wrong, even if the store has a lot,” Charlie said.

Ryan laughed as Charlie walked away.

That night, Charlie told his parents how he had been tempted to take the mitt.

“What stopped you?” Dad asked.

“I just knew it wasn’t honest,” Charlie said. “I knew it would be the wrong choice.”

Dad placed his hand on Charlie’s shoulder. “We’re proud of you,” he said.

Even though Charlie still hadn’t made any good friends in his new class yet, he felt happy as he lay in bed that night. With baseball season just around the corner, he knew he would have a chance to make some new friends.

(Jane McBride Choate, “The Catcher’s Mitt”, Friend, May 2011)

*Discuss these questions as a family*
1- Why did Charlie’s family move?
2- What did Ryan tell Charlie to do with the mitt?
3- Did Charlie take the mitt? Why?
4- How did Charlie feel when he told Ryan that he was not going to take the mitt?
Testify of the importance of honesty.

*For Teenagers or Adults* Start with an object lesson, share the following story and discuss the importance of honesty. (Elder Marcos A Aidukaitis, “Honesty in the Small Things”, Ensign Sept 2003)

Start off by showing a few medical items (such as bandages, pills, rubbing alcohol, neosporin, etc).

Ask family members to name minor illnesses & why they think they are minor.
Also ask family members to name major illnesses & why they think they are major.

Dishonesty is like cancer

Share the story below:

Not long ago, a friend told me he had learned after a routine checkup that he had cancer. He had felt nothing different in his body—no pain, no perceptible indication of the disease. Fortunately, the cancer was discovered early, and he started treatment immediately, which increased his chance of survival. My friend recommended that I have a similar checkup. He concluded that these regular checkups could mean the difference between a short and a long life.

I left that conversation wondering how I would feel upon discovering there was something within me capable of taking my life, particularly if I did not take immediate action. I certainly would not scrimp on my efforts to address the problem as soon as I could. I would seek out the best doctors and hospitals available to me. I cannot imagine that anyone, knowing they were sick, would not do everything within their power to seek a cure.

By the same token, there are cancers of a spiritual nature that, if discovered early, are more easily cured. Yet if allowed to fester, they have the potential of destroying us spiritually. One of these spiritual cancers is dishonesty.Scriptural teachings on honesty are clear, but unfortunately the world seems to be much more flexible. The world even classifies people according to different levels of honesty. Sometimes we hear of people who are “very” honest, “mostly” honest, or even “a little” honest.

Should we even use modifiers with the word honest? I don’t believe so. There are no degrees of honesty. Either we are honest or we aren’t. It is the same with cancer. Either we have the disease or we don’t.Many people rationalize committing “small” acts of dishonesty such as keeping extra change they receive in the grocery store, taking home supplies from the workplace, being less than accurate on tax returns, disobeying copyright laws, and so on. Yet even so-called small errors need to be eradicated from our lives, for anytime we are dishonest, we are breaking one of the Lord’s commandments. And as the scriptures tell us, “there cannot any unclean thing enter into the kingdom of God” (1 Ne. 15:34).

After an individual is diagnosed with cancer, what foolishness it would be for him or her to say: “It doesn’t hurt yet, and it doesn’t interfere with anything. I’ll just live with it. I’ve never needed a doctor before. Surely the cancer will disappear by itself.” Similarly, it would be great foolishness to ignore a problem with dishonesty, even if it is seemingly small now. As we rationalize committing small acts of dishonesty, the problem worsens, and it becomes easier to commit progressively larger sins.

The good news in relation to spiritual cancers is that, contrary to their fleshy counterparts, all of them can be cured before they cause our spiritual death. Recognizing them is the first step to returning to full spiritual health.

My friend’s advice is vital, even in our spiritual lives: we need to conduct regular spiritual checkups on ourselves to determine the areas in which we need to improve.

Discuss & testify of the importance of honesty.

FHE Treat

Treat

Peach Blossom Tarts or Fruit Flowers

Peach Blossom Tarts

Ingredients:

1/2 package (17.3-oz. size) frozen puff pastry (sold ready-made at most supermarkets)

4 fresh, ripe peaches

4 tablespoons confectioners’ sugar

1 cup cream cheese, softened

2 tablespoons apricot or strawberry jam

4 raspberries

Instructions:

1- Thaw one puff pastry sheet at room temperature. Then heat the oven to 400 degrees. With a cookie cutter or a butter knife, cut the pastry into four circles that measure about 4 inches in diameter. Use a butter knife to cut leaf shapes (about 1-1/2 inches long) from the puff pastry scraps. Bake on an ungreased baking sheet for 10 minutes. Transfer to a wire rack (a parent’s job) and let cool completely.

2- Wash the peaches well, then cut them into halves and remove the pits. Thinly slice the halves into a mixing bowl. Dust the peaches with confectioners’ sugar, and let them set while you prepare the cream cheese filling.

3- In a separate mixing bowl, blend the cream cheese and apricot or strawberry jam with a wooden spoon until smooth (another good job for kids). Gently split open each puff pastry circle and spread a thin layer of the cream cheese mixture on the bottom halves. Replace the tops and gently spread on more of the cream cheese mixture.

4- Layer the peach slices in a circular pattern on top of the cream cheese. Start at the outer edge and work toward the center. Finally, place a fresh raspberry in the center of each blossom and garnish with the pastry leaves. Serves 4.

Fruit Flowers

Ingredients:

Banana
Kiwi
Raspberries or strawberries
Licorice
Mint leaves

Instructions:

1- For the flower center, use a slice of banana or kiwi.

2- Arrange raspberry or strawberry petals around it, then add a shoestring-licorice stem with real mint leaves.

(Recipes taken from Familyfun.go.com)

FHE Game / Activity

Activity


1- Fly a kite.

2- Go for a walk or bike ride.

3- Play sports.

4- Play a card game.

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  1. Brandon

    Thanks, Breanne! We used this lesson tonight! 🙂

    -Caitlin & Brandon
    -Ben & Charlotte

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